Zaffron and Logan suggest in their book that how we react to situations and perform arises from our perceptions and the language that we use. I found this book an interesting read.
The authors present 3 laws:
1. How people perform correlates to how situations occur to them.
My actions relate to how I perceive the world, not the way it actually is. There is value in recognizing that I see things through my own filters created from the sum total of my past experiences.
2. How a situation occurs arises in language.
How a situation occurs to me comes from how I speak about it. I need to be aware of my internal voice. The authors describe how we have rackets which come with 4 elements:
When I recognize my rackets, I can begin to dismantle them.
3. Future-based language transforms how situations occur to people.
Incidents from the past live on as a prediction, giving me my default future. To create a future, I need a blank canvas to work from; i.e. not cluttered with the past. First, I must identify my default future. See that it isn’t inevitable or necessary but a construction of my language.
What kind of future would:
Dear Henry I feel so inspired that you have undertaken blogging your inspirations as a challenge to yourself. Keep the creative juices flowing and love to all you are doing.
Comment by Marisa — March 26, 2010 @ 12:05 pm